Case studies

some people think that theres no way to escape the destiny, the say its written by the hands of god
A survey in united stated found that 70% of woman are looking for older partner, 99% of them
Could not satsfy the inspector
Interestingly, Cunningham did an unpublished study of 60 women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s, who were shown pictures of men aged to those decades. "The women," he says, "were more interested in men their own age or older."

(these studies was found in US because of culture distance, you may find something little a bit diffrent in Iran, I think here they are looking for 40s Older Man)

Getting over the "shoulds""

We have strong 'shoulds' on ways of partnering up," Kathryn Elliott, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology at the University of Louisiana at Lafayette, explains to WebMD. "We are victims of inner-critic constrictedness. We think we should only weigh 120. We should marry people within two years of our age. We pathologize anything that isn't within those shoulds."
The key to making older women/younger man relationships work, Elliott says, is to match what she calls voltages. "Choose someone who is your voltage type -- has the same level of intensity about life. If the voltages are different, one becomes the pursuer and one the distancer. This can create pain."

Voltages are not a factor of age, she says
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a right partnership is someone faithful and nothing else matter for me, life in long terms is Changeable , I mean i get over things and change in my own way through Years. all the thing I want to say is that Life would be perfect if we make this possible and reallize that each one of us has its own way ,we would not dumb copy ather as a model, here YOu go for Comment :)